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Rafa Páez's avatar

Great post, Wes. Assertions take courage and require extreme ownership.

I believe it's highly related to the High Agency topic I wrote last week: “High agency isn’t one skill — it’s the rare combination of clear thinking, bias to action, and the courage to disagree when it matters.”

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Devin's avatar

This helps me understand why I was feeling less than impressed the other day working with a colleague. They kept sharing facts, figures, and data like I should be impressed, but we're missing action oriented suggestions, let alone assertions. This will help me coach myself and others to bring possible solutions to the table that are directly connected to accountability! Thank you!

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Joanna's avatar

This is a great reminder Wes and well timed for me! Thank you. When someone brings a 'so what, now what?' to the table, things get 100% more interesting.

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Monica A's avatar

As I progress in my career, I’ve been consciously working on this exact shift: from simply noticing patterns to having a point of view and standing behind it. Wes’s breakdown of insights, suggestions, and assertions really resonated. It’s easy to stop at the “interesting insight” stage, but what actually drives momentum is taking a stand, even when certainty isn’t guaranteed. It’s a mindset I’m learning to embody more deliberately and this piece was the push I didn’t know I needed.

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PRIYAL GUPTA's avatar

Wonderful article, Wes. I often find myself thinking, 'Let me take some time to absorb this and maybe share an insight or suggestion later.' But in the rush of work, that later rarely comes—and the context has already shifted. I'm learning that making an assertion in the moment, even if it's not perfect, invites valuable perspectives and keeps the conversation moving.

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Claire Kim's avatar

Thanks for the simplicity and clarity. It is applicable to be one of the first principles of being a founder, also in life. There are many sayings about mindset and tactics, but the bottom line distinction is as simple as this assertion as defined. Thank you!

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Tirumal Chamarti's avatar

great one -

Key take away:

1. "if you just had to follow directions down to a tee, your manager could hire someone on Upwork. They’re a lot more affordable than you are. And what’s even more affordable? Claude or ChatGPT."

2. Professionals and A-players ask great questions, then assert how to answer those questions too.

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Will Newton's avatar

This hits the nail on the head completely. Sharing with my team. Thank you!

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Gabriele Cimato's avatar

I have seen this been effective also for people that complain about something and take that chance to lead to a path forward with a plan. I usually appreciate a lot more someone knocking at my door with the intention to resolve an annoyance rather than just venting. You can only vent so many times with inaction. The better performers come prepared to discuss where to go from there.

Thank you for putting these thoughts into better words!

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Chris Eagle's avatar

One key insight here is that once your assertion is given air, it becomes the point of critique - and this has to be intended as humans are far better at criticising ideas than generating new ones. Being able to discuss the assertion confidently when the critique comes in then breathes even more life to it

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Claire Butler's avatar

So funny, we overlapped at The Gap. I remember those mood boards. And plaid. And activewear's resurgence.

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Mo.'s avatar

From observation, whenever management or leadership seems hesitant to make a decision for whatever reason (be it ambiguous reports, disagreements and no consensus reached, lack of balls)...

It feels like it's an opportunity for staff to make an assertion and get management moving there. Effectively catalysing them to make up their minds and towards action.

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Jason Yip's avatar

This reminds me of Data --> Insights --> Beliefs --> Bets at Spotify. "Assertion" seems equivalent to "Belief" while "Bet" would be what actions / initiatives would take if we accepted the Assertions/Beliefs to be true.

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Yahnny A San Luis-Wallgren's avatar

I have a team that asserts to me, and I assert to the founder. I'm grateful that we have a company culture that fosters a safe space to present ideas. I believe that gives team members the freedom to assert their ideas without feeling as if they will be dismissed. Even if we don't agree 100% of the time, the conservation opens us up to reiteration and collaboration. I'll be honest that sometimes it doesn't feel good when an idea is shot down, but having the opportunity to assert one's ideas is what matters.

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Ved Shankar's avatar

I've been doing link curations with a takeaway these days, for my blog. This is a good reminder that a takeaway or insight isn't enough - I need to focus on the so-what for readers as well

(else it's just a nice to know idea)

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Marc Typo's avatar

Heard a pastor say once- lots of people have ideas, but few of them know how to execute. This was such a great reminder and push I needed.

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